Harriette Cole: My friend won’t stop her weird behaviorJealous Best FriendDEAR JEALOUS BEST FRIEND: I have a problem with the concept of “best friend.” I know some people will think that’s extreme, but my reason is that just by definition, it indicates that this one person takes precedence over all others. Related Articles Harriette Cole: I’m afraid to tell my boyfriend what I’m doingHarriette Cole: How can I make her see this man is wrong for her? Harriette Cole: My fiance hates his job, but I’ll be living well if he keeps itHarriette Cole: What should I say when they ask how I afford my apartment? Harriette Cole: I don’t know how I’ll pay for my son’s college You can assure your best friend of how much you love her and appreciate her friendship. Harriette Cole is a lifestylist and founder of DREAMLEAPERS, an initiative to help people access and activate their dreams.